Speaking of weddings , wedding costs can spiral quickly out of control if you let them. Here are 6 ways to rock your wedding without emptying your wallet! Photo by iChaz Joint Expenses. I personally dislike the whole concept of a proposal. Especially how men are under substantial social pressure to spend 3 months worth of their income on a ring, hoping that it is her taste and that she’ll say “yes”. No, thanks! Chris and I made the decision to get married together and